Today is my son's birthday.
But it's not just any birthday.
Today he is 18 years of age.
In this society, he is now considered a man, with all the responsibilities that go along with being an adult.
He can legally smoke, drink, vote, and go to war.
So he has many responsibilities now, although I seriously doubt that he will do any of those things I named above, except to vote (I hope).
I remember the day he was born.
My wife, who I must say really looked great when she was pregnant, was just about ready to go, but I almost had to force her to go to the hospital.
We got there, and they determined that she wasn't ready just yet, and we had to walk around to get her so.
We did, the doctor proclaimed that he was going on vacation so "this baby will be born today," since he was a couple of days late in making his debut.
And he was born.
And he was so, so tiny, I think he was even smaller than my daughter was when she was born seven years earlier.
Anyway, he has grown up, and now he is a man.
That picture above is a picture of him when he was a bit younger, but if a picture says a thousand words, this one does too.
He just completed his first paying job this year, working in a local camp as a video game expert, where he played video games with the campers.
I told him that that job might be the best job he ever had, doing something all day that he loved. It was like getting paid to pursue your hobby.
Since my son is a special ed kid, and has a learning disability, this is his last year of formal schooling.
He will be looking for work once he gets out of school, and I know it will be difficult, but my wife and I are convinced that he will succeed.
We wish him the very best. He is somewhat immature--I think most kids are today, mainly because of their reliance on the Internet for social activity--and he has that disability, which does hinder him in many ways.
But he is going to make it.
Wow, 18 years old.
I can't believe it.
My wife and I are very, very proud of him, and look forward to his future accomplishments.
drinking age here is 21 not 18. And also I do believe that you have to be 25 to buy cigarettes
ReplyDeleteYes, I may have been in error here, because it is, I think, at least 2 years of age all around where I am. However, he can drive a car, he can be drafted, and he can vote, so at least in some eyes, he is an adult now.
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